For Us, By Him

A husband’s perspective on building a family—sharing struggles, resilience, and untold stories of love and support.

My Untold Journey

Hello and welcome to my personal blog, where I share my journey as a husband working toward becoming a father—our struggles, treatments, and my efforts to be the best supportive partner I can (or at least try to be).

I created this blog as a form of personal therapy and to share my experiences and ours from the unique perspective of a husband. I’ve noticed there isn’t much out there about this—few shared experiences or information from the partner’s point of view. When we talk about pregnancy, treatments, and challenges, the focus is usually on the woman, which makes sense, but it often overlooks the partner who’s trying to hold it all together and help in any way they can.

As a form of therapy—and perhaps because I’m a bit introverted or shaped by culture—I don’t often open up to friends or talk about my life. This blog is my way of putting into words my thoughts, struggles, and both the happy and sad moments of this journey. Hopefully, it resonates with someone out there, or maybe you can help me understand some of the topics I’ll write about.


Thank you for reading, and I hope you enjoy this glimpse into my life. If it helps even one person, that would make me truly happy.